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IFS — Internal Family Systems (Schwartz) — treats the mind as a system of parts: the inner critic, the perfectionist, the people-pleaser, the wounded child. None of them are bad. These articles explain how to meet your parts instead of fighting them, and what the research says works.
7 articles
How to Talk to Your Inner Child: A Simple IFS-Style Exercise
A simple IFS-style exercise for how to talk to your inner child: find the young part, get curious, and stay with it.
What Is 'Self' in IFS? The Calm Core Underneath Your Parts
Self in IFS is the calm, curious core that isn't a part — the steady you underneath the noise. Here's how to recognize it and reach it.
What Are IFS Parts? A Beginner's Map of Managers, Firefighters, and Exiles
IFS parts are the inner voices that run your day — managers, firefighters, and exiles. Here's a plain map of what each one protects and why.
Parentification: Why You Can't Relax as an Adult
If you raised your parent, rest feels like a trap. Your body equates stillness with being on-call. Here's how to retrain the parts that won't clock out.
Hyperindependence Isn’t Strength—It’s a Trauma Response
You call it strength. Your body calls it survival. Hyperindependence looks heroic from the outside and feels like a trap on the inside.
Childhood Trauma in Adults: 12 Signs You Carry It
You’re grown, but your body still flinches at old alarms. Childhood trauma doesn’t disappear; it adapts. Here’s how it shows up now—and what to do next.
10 Signs of Complex PTSD from Childhood Trauma
You don’t wake up “broken.” You wake up trained. Complex PTSD shows up in daily, ordinary moments. Here’s how to spot it and start working with it.
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